The Patrick McCurdy Education Foundation

Each year that I am a part of the public school system, I get the opportunity to witness some pretty “cool”, “teachable moments”.  This year I witnessed high school students demonstrating incredible kindness and compassion for the younger students in the Pleasant Hill School District.

Our Billy Buddies Program has been in existence for a few years now, however, due to scheduling constraints, it was difficult to find a time in the high school students’ day when they could mentor the first and second grade students.  Our Elementary School Mentor Coordinator, Susie Rexius, and the High School’s Service Learning Teacher, Pat Lebrun worked relentlessly to make the program work.  Finally, in November the Billy Buddies had their first meeting.

What an incredible meeting it was!  Seventeen high school students volunteered their time to meet with a “little buddy” once a week for 50 minutes. They just had their last meeting of the year on Monday, May 24th.

Each week, the high school students came prepared with games, activities, and arts and craft projects that engaged the younger students in ways that we adults could not do!    It was one of those “ah-ha” moments when I realized I was learning more from the students than they are from me or from the experience.

Because of this powerful experience, Billy Buddies will be offered as a class next year for high school students who have completed Pat Lebrun’s Childhood Development course.  Each student will have two “little buddies” (a first and a second graders) who they will meet with twice a week during 4th period.  It’s a win-win!  The “little buddy” will gain a big brother or sister and the high school students will have the experience of a lifetime…and three credits to boot!

For me…well, here’s another opportunity for the adults to learn from our students!  How wonderful!

As spring slowly arrives I am pleasantly reminded of my childhood and my excitement for the swimming pools to open.  This was my favorite time of year, since it was when I got to be with my swim coach, my mentor!  I looked up to this person for many reasons, but mostly because he was there for me at the times I doubted my ability or my strength as a swimmer!

Summer is  a different time for many of the mentees in our program.  It is a time for freedom, unstructured fun, and perhaps a time to open new horizons with their mentors!  Oregon has a plethora of activities in the summer that could assist a mentor in creating a rich, fulfilling relationship with his/her mentee: berry picking, climbing a mountain, playing by the river, going to the lake, county fairs, music in the park….many opportunities!

Next Wednesday, May 12th we will hold our last Mentor Workshop before we adjourn for the summer.  Join us for great food and even better conversation as we prepare to embark on a new level of our mentor/mentee relationships in the summer months.

I think there is a saying somewhere about fresh starts…or maybe it’s about how we can start or day over at anytime, anywhere.  I feel as though 2010 is a fresh start, or a new start to the day.

Many windows of opportunity have opened for us at PMEF.  We have received funding to allow us to hire a new staff member at Lincoln Middle School, which will allow me to get back to the job at hand: financial stability.  We are working diligently to merge the Family Resource Centers in Pleasant Hill and South Lane, providing a new family class called Strengthening Families.  This seven-week class is designed for families with middle school age children.  The focus is how to manage conflict, set boundaries and create a loving, caring environment.  Strengthening Families will begin in Pleasant Hill on January 25th and in February in South Lane.  What a great opportunity for families.

In addition, we are tracking and evaluating our program more closely than ever before.  It’s exciting to find that the passion and efforts of our mentors is paying off.   Keep up the great work!

Yes, 2010 is an exciting time.  It’s a time for change.  It’s a time for renewal.  I am looking forward rather than behind me for the first time in a long time!

With 2010 around the corner, it is a great time for reflection.  Since the inception of our program in 2005 we have not only doubled but tripled in size.  I think, I hope all our mentees and mentors are happy with the support and offerings of the program.  As we move forward, we have many exciting things to look forward to, one being the ability for us to provide a family/parenting class for middle school families.  We will begin this class mid-January, stay tuned!  Also, we were awarded funds through the Lane County Commission, which will allow us to provide more enrichment activities and career exploration for the older mentees.  2010 is already appearing to be a year of abundance!

The smile I see on Sally’s face when I sit and let her tell her story is worth a million bucks.  Sometimes, all anyone wants is someone to share with.  Someone to listen to them without judging.  Someone to guide them along their way to adulthood.